Wedding Planning - Paying for Your Wedding

April 29, 2008

Perhaps you are getting married soon but do you know who is going to pay for the wedding and reception?

If you are following a more traditional wedding most of the expenses of the wedding will usually be paid for by the brides family.  However this tradition is dying a slow death.  More and more frequently the couple themselves are paying for their wedding ceremony and reception and with total bills running well into 5 digits, this can put quite a squeeze on any budget.

Below is a more traditional list of the expenses that you will encounter before and after your wedding.  Knowing up front who is paying for each of these and setting a clear budget in advance will make your wedding go far more smoothly.

  • Bridesmaids gifts
  • Ceremony expenses
  • Ceremony/Reception Flowers
  • Entertainment at the reception
  • Wedding favors
  • Flowers for the bouquets and corsages
  • Arrange for accommodations for out of town guests
  • Gratuities/Tips for services
  • Groomsmen gifts
  • Grooms wedding ring
  • Wedding guest book and pen set
  • Any needed rental items
  • RSVP, wedding announcements
  • Decorations of for the wedding
  • Photographer
  • Napkins
  • Wedding Programs
  • Reception costs
  • Videographer
  • Rehearsal dinner
  • Wedding planner
  • Wedding dress and accessories
  • Groomsmen accessories
  • Arrange for accommodations for out of town guests
  • Brides wedding ring
  • Honeymoon
  • Wedding transportation
  • Marriage License
  • Officiant Fee
  • Grooms tux
  • This list is just examples of some of the expenses you will incur along with your wedding. You should use this as examples only because you will have a better idea of what will fit you and your families budget.

     

     

     

     

     

    Gifts to Encourage Fitness

    February 26, 2008

    We are all aware that Americans are becoming more sedentary. There are so many reasons to sit – work, TV, computer, games, car rides – and few motivators to move. I do not happen to be a fitness fanatic, but I have had a history of high cholesterol, and keeping my weight in check is a constant battle. So, I love receiving gifts that motivate me to exercise or make exercise fun. Receiving and giving gifts that encourage physical fitness can show how much you care for your loved one’s health. Even if your loved one is not a fitness fanatic, there are lots of ideas to get him or her moving.

    A pedometer is a great gift idea, as it is small, portable, and relatively inexpensive. We should all be getting in at least 10,000 steps a day, and wearing a pedometer is a great incentive to get moving. Other ideas include a subscription to a fitness magazine, an exercise ball, or maybe some hand weights. For many, a new exercise outfit or pair of walking shoes is all it takes to get motivated. Maybe your loved one has always wanted to take yoga or pilates classes. Instructional DVD’s would allow her to learn the basics in the privacy of her own home before joining (or instead of joining) a class.

    Maybe your loved one is a fitness fanatic or an avid sportsman. If that’s the case, follow his or her lead and research the sport. You will probably find that there is a new gadget or piece of equipment that is all the rage. I have been told that a golfer can never have too many putters, and there is always a new one version on the market! Well chosen golf accessories are always appreciated.  Many fitness fanatics love to work out with music, so gift cards for on-line music to be downloaded to MP3 players might be a good idea.

    My dad likes to walk, but wasn’t sure he was getting his heart rate up high enough. So, my brother gave him a heart rate monitor for Christmas. Now Dad knows how fast he needs to walk to get to his target heart rate. Don’t forget the kids in your life. Gifts that promote exercise and playing outside are wonderful ideas.

    Balls of any kind are always fun, and are generally inexpensive. I also like jump ropes. We take jump ropes on long car rides, so the kids can work out their wiggles during pit stops. A jump rope rhyme book can add a little additional incentive to get jumping. There are also pogo sticks, roller skates, hula hoops, and even dance videos to get the young ones moving. So the next time you are stumped for a gift idea, consider sports gifts - something that will motivate the recipient to get moving. After all, there is no better gift than good health.

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